The Alchemy of Raising Vibration and Loving Life
Feelings of depression, anxiety, emotional imbalance, and the like, can drag us down into a dark cycle that drains our passion and joy. This makes creating a life we love seem out of reach. We might feel hope fading, doubts and fears dominating our thoughts, and the ability to stay positive seems like a burden. These heavier feelings lower our vibration allowing apathy to set in. But, we do not need to succumb to this depressed state. We can reclaim our passion for life.
Emotions are influenced by many factors. Finding a true sense of balance and creating a life we love requires addressing multiple aspects of life, rather than just one. Emotional imbalances could be caused from external life stress, biochemical imbalances in the body, environmental toxins, brain trauma, psychosomatic blockages, being out of touch with oneself and our true purpose, and so forth.
From a holistic perspective everything is seen from the level of mind, body, and spirit. Imbalances within the psyche influence the soul, which then triggers the emotions that lead to changes in body chemistry. We can shift these imbalances to restore ourselves to homeostasis by using both outside-in and inside-out techniques.
Although, at times it may feel as though we’ve tried everything, consistent new habits and practices will help us to transform our reality. The power and the fire of transformation are always within us. We simply must choose to use it and put it into action.
How can we reclaim our life to rise out of depression once it takes hold?
By working with the alchemy of life, we can activate our ability to direct and control the Fire of transmutation. To transmute something is to raise the inner vibration from lower to higher, or from ego to Spirit. “Fire”, in this context, is the symbolic element by which all things transform and transmute.
Fire can come from two sources: External or Internal. External fire is generated from outside of us. For example, it can be an outer pressure that pushes us to take appropriate action (such as meeting a deadline or goal), or it can be a stimulus we are exposed to that excites our sensory-nervous system (such as music, aromas, touch, color, images, foods, etc). Internal fire, on the other hand, is generated from inside of us. Certain positive thoughts, emotions, feelings, or subtle energies that are generated from within our soul and consciousness can be utilized in an intentional way to lift us up.
When we use such fire, whether external or internal, with purpose and clear intent, we can turn negatives into positives. We can learn to shift from feelings of stress, heaviness, or hopelessness into vitality, motivation, and excitement. We all want to feel better. Happiness and joy are something everyone deserves to have in life. And we all have huge potential to expand to our ultimate life. Yet to do so, we must activate that potential and set it into motion to create the life we will love.
Here are four key areas to increase our fire so that we can raise our vibration and create a life we love:
KEY 1: Fire in The Body
The pioneering research of neuroscientist, Dr. Candace Pert, revealed that brain function is largely modulated by various neuropeptides, in addition to neurotransmitters, which can alter our behaviors and moods. (1) These neuerochemicals can be compared to the “fire” in the body. Certain parts of the brain are equipped with receptor sites that accept specific neurochemicals into them. Some of these brain nodes are associated with regulating our emotional states. Dr. Pert affirms, “Neuropeptides and their receptors thus join the brain, glands, and immune system in a network of communication between brain and body, probably representing the biochemical substrate of emotion.” (2)
So, which neurochemicals are most associated with reducing stress and helping lift us up out of depression? (3)
One of the most well-known is dopamine, often called the “reward molecule”, which increases when we experience pleasure or achieve a goal. However, the boost from dopamine is usually short-lived, so it does not give us a sustainable or long-term solution.
Next is oxytocin, known as the “bonding molecule”, which is directly linked to relating with touch and interacting with others whom we trust or feel romance, gratitude, love, or loyalty towards. Increasing these heart-centered feelings will increase oxytocin.
Third is GABA, which helps to reduce anxiety while creating a sense of calmness.
Fourth is Serotonin, which is a molecule associated with boosting confidence and can be naturally stimulated by doing things that bring you a sense of purpose, meaning, and accomplishment.
Fifth is neuropeptide Y, which has a sedative effect for reducing stress, anxiety, PTSD, and depression… (4)
There are others as well, but these are some of the primary ones we can address through natural/holistic methods to build “fire” in the body. Below are some recommended approaches:
Moving the body is an essential aspect of creating fire in the body.
It can be as simple as a 20-minute walk or as vigorous as a high-intensity workout.
Strenuous exercise as well as alternating between hot and cold temperatures (such as hot sauna and then cold shower) has been linked to increasing endorphins, dopamine, and neuropeptide Y. (5)
But, even something as simple as walking has tremendous benefits for moving energy in the body, creating bilateral motion and balancing the hemispheres of the brain.
According to studies, walking has been shown to reduce stress and stress-hormones. (6)
Physical activity builds the fire in the body and releases endorphins, which cause the body to feel better and reduce pain.
In addition to stress reduction, regular exercise can help alleviate symptoms of depression, improve sleep and boost self-esteem.
Chi Building Exercises
Tai-chi, Chi Do, and Qigong are types of movement that also enhance fire in the body. These types of exercises are regenerative and work to integrate the mind, body, and spirit.
They work with both yin (feminine) and yang (masculine) energies of the body to balance them.
These types of exercises circulate and build the qi/chi, or vital life force energy, of the body to balance and clear blockages and help us feel more naturally energized. (7)
In clinical studies at UCLA, it has been shown that practicing Tai Chi and Qigong regularly reduces depression and inflammation in the body.
This form of exercise involves coordinating gentle movements, breath, visualization and mindful meditation.
These exercises are also used in preparation for martial arts, so they are excellent for building the fire in the body and learning how to direct our energy. (8)
Yoga is another form of exercise that helps in building fire in the body and balancing the chakras.
A study from the "Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine" suggests that yoga can naturally increase GABA levels, which reduces anxiety. The researchers found a 27% increase in GABA levels among yoga practitioners after a 60-minute yoga session versus those found in participants who simply read a book for 60 minutes. (9)
There are many forms of yoga available today. Some forms are more yin (gentle and passive) while others are more yang (driven and active). Yin is more nurturing to the body, while yang is more invigorating. Any yoga practice can be helpful for balancing the body and increasing your fire.
Dance can also be a great way to enhance the fire in the body.
This form of movement is expressive and interactive, allowing us to move in creative, fun, intuitive, and rhythmic ways.
Listening to some of our favorite uplifting music while dancing, is bound to help us shift our mood, while also releasing endorphins and other feel-good molecules.
Touch, Sex, and Bonding
Skin-to-skin contact that is affectionate, intimate, and loving is known to increase oxytocin in our body, which then triggers a sense of bonding, belonging, and happiness.
When we isolate from other people, this reduces our oxytocin production and can lower our level of joy. So be sure to stay in touch with people, in the flesh (not just online).
Cuddle time with pets can also increase oxytocin levels, so if you don’t have people to connect with, then consider getting a pet.
Sexual intercourse and orgasms also stimulate the production of endorphins, dopamine, oxytocin and other feel-good molecules. There is nothing better than sexual passion to light your fires!
The priority is to find the forms of physical activity that we love, while creating a life we love. As we incorporate any of the above types of physical movement regularly into our life we’ll begin to see a reduction in the symptoms of depression, stress, and anxiety so that we can access our greater potential. When we intentionally choose to move our body in a stimulating way, we’ll build fire in our body. This fire in the body transforms stagnant energies and increases the neurochemicals that leave us feeling elevated.
KEY 2: Fire in The Mind
The next place we want to bring fire into is the mind. This involves uplifting our thoughts so that we can raise the baseline of our vibration. Each individual has a homeostasis of their energy, thoughts, and emotional state. This all culminates and reflects in our vibration, aura, or presence. We have the ability to raise our vibration and shift our mindstate by building the transformative fire in our thoughts to burn through old patterns. Changing negative thinking to positive thinking can radically improve our mental and emotional health. It has the ability to drastically improve our mood and reduce depressive patterns.
Journaling is a simple exercise we can do to improve our thoughts.
Take just one hour of one day this week to write down every thought you have. This will give you a glimpse into what is going on in your head, providing insight into which thoughts hold you down and which ones uplift you.
Once you have this map of the terrain of your mind, then you can more easily identify what new roads (or neural-pathways) you want to pave and which ones you want to discontinue using.
Journaling gives us a way to see the negative thoughts we have so that we can reframe them.
Reframing negative thoughts to positive ones:
Look at your thoughts and notice where you have absolutes that include statements such as, “always” or “never.” Those are great indicators of a limiting belief and something that is keeping you from expanding to your ultimate life.
Also look at where there is self-talk of: judgement, complaining, criticism, feeling competitive, insecurity, or thoughts of lack. These thoughts may look like, “I’m not enough…”, “I hate…”, “I’m better than them…”, “I always have to do this...”, etc.
When we perpetuate certain thoughts out of habit, they have a biochemical response that reinforces neural-pathways in the brain, keeping us stuck in a pattern of self-sabotage.
The saying in neuroscience says “What fires together, wires together.” So if we want to stop a certain negative pattern from wiring any stronger, we need to interrupt it’s firing cycle as soon as we can, and as often as needed, and then redirect towards a new one.
Working on reframing negative and false self-talk to more positive thoughts will help us become more empowered in everything that we do. When our thoughts support us we’ll feel happier, more motivated, balanced, a